I have some yummy and long background on here that I will try to link (or someone may help me out). I'm posting on my phone while nursing my lo, so forgive my phone it's idiotic spelling.
My sil and I have never gotten along (this is dh's brother's wife). We are two very different people. We have had a fake cordial relationship. In my background I spoke about how sil decided that her kids are not to be around my baby because he is not vaccinated. Totally her kids, her rules. We are both sahm so it is not often we would be without our kids so this cuts visits down a lot. Tonight I happened to see her at our company's christmas party. I arrived, she ignored me. I got around to saying hi to her. It was terribly awkard. Dh told me in the car that she took him aside and said his mom told her that dh said sil doesn't like him. My dh shrugged it off, saying he has no idea what she is taking about. Well he had said that to mil and is very annoyed that she repeated it to sil. Dh needs help addressing that with mil. There is no big recent drama with sil, I am simply done with our oh-so-fake relationship, u am angry/annoyed/both after every visit or interaction and our relationship is useless because it's so fake. I don't want to ever see her again and I don't think she would mind in the least. The only people who would mind is pil; but with the lo's not getting together anyway, doesn't seem like it would be much of a loss.
My dh is not a great communicator and hates when he tries to tell his family we have an issue because they always argue with him and he feels he cant explain or get the point across, really he just jades way too much and hasn't mastered saying myob. He is fine with me CO sil but he doesn't want to have to answer the eventual questions on why I never attend events with sil, if I was to say nothing and just stop seeing her. However, I think telling her she is CO now would just create drama. I guess it's a deal with the drama now, or later debate we are in right now.
My sil and I have never gotten along (this is dh's brother's wife). We are two very different people. We have had a fake cordial relationship. In my background I spoke about how sil decided that her kids are not to be around my baby because he is not vaccinated. Totally her kids, her rules. We are both sahm so it is not often we would be without our kids so this cuts visits down a lot. Tonight I happened to see her at our company's christmas party. I arrived, she ignored me. I got around to saying hi to her. It was terribly awkard. Dh told me in the car that she took him aside and said his mom told her that dh said sil doesn't like him. My dh shrugged it off, saying he has no idea what she is taking about. Well he had said that to mil and is very annoyed that she repeated it to sil. Dh needs help addressing that with mil. There is no big recent drama with sil, I am simply done with our oh-so-fake relationship, u am angry/annoyed/both after every visit or interaction and our relationship is useless because it's so fake. I don't want to ever see her again and I don't think she would mind in the least. The only people who would mind is pil; but with the lo's not getting together anyway, doesn't seem like it would be much of a loss.
My dh is not a great communicator and hates when he tries to tell his family we have an issue because they always argue with him and he feels he cant explain or get the point across, really he just jades way too much and hasn't mastered saying myob. He is fine with me CO sil but he doesn't want to have to answer the eventual questions on why I never attend events with sil, if I was to say nothing and just stop seeing her. However, I think telling her she is CO now would just create drama. I guess it's a deal with the drama now, or later debate we are in right now.