The link below is the OP:
Anyway, I'm filing for divorce on Monday. This decision came hard and fast, like five days ago, but DUH really sealed his fate this morning on his way out my door after dropping off our DS.
DUH asked me for half of my pay check to pay for tabs, car insurance and the cable bill. I blinked at him blankly. I told him I wouldn't be doing that because the money that I do have has to go towards taking care of our DS and making sure he has a roof over his head. DUH proceeded to raise his voice at me, he got in my face and at one point I felt his rage lash out at me it almost felt like a punch in the stomach. I asked him to leave my place and he screamed at me then slammed the door hard as he left.
I felt like my home had be violated and I felt disrespected. At this point I finally realize that he wants someone to take care of him, but he has no intentions of doing the same. It breaks me heart, but I will not give all of myself to someone who doesn't appreciate it or who continues to act like a child.
His mother has been sugary sweet since DS's birthday, I've shut her down and she is truly DUH's problem now.
I just wanted to check in and thank everyone for their support. I really hoped in my heart of hearts he would just grow the fuck up and be there for his family. A lot of you called this a mile away. I've been married before and the idea of going through another divorce is just too depressing for words right now. I know what has to be done and I will do it so I can move on. I just want to be happy again and have some faith restored in humanity.