A little over 3 years ago I went into preterm labor at 21 weeks and had a baby girl. When it came time to push MIL was told to go to the waiting room. I just found out yesterday that instead of going to the waiting room she snuck into the sitting room connected to my room and watched through the curtains. She was well aware she was not allowed to watch even before I went into labor. I am so upset. I only found this out because I am almost 29 weeks and was asked what my birth plan for this baby was. I said only df and I would be in the room again and she said thats ok, I watched you have Kylee. This is not the first time she has over stepped boundaries. There were incidents with the funeral arrangements and the hospital pictures. I'm terrified of what she is going to say/do with this baby. She has already gone around telling everyone she will be babysitting Aubree when I go back to work. This was after I told her I'm considering becoming a SAHM because df and I don't want someone else keeping our baby all the time. Also, we have already purchased almost everything we need and I requested she not go over board buying baby things as we don't have the room. A couple weeks later she showed me a closet full of things she bought and said she showed it to my smom and told her she didn't know what I was thinking, telling her not to buy a lot. I said that is fine but your keeping all those items. I know boundaries have to be set. I just don't know where to start. Oh, and did I mention we live next door to her?
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