I have really BSC inlaws and awesome parents (parents live on the other side of the country and visit once a year)
This group has been awesome helping with my inlaws BUT has also had me doubting my relationship with my parents.
My dad calls "how are my girls" it use to seem totally okay and normal and now every time I hear him say it I think of this group and cringe.
Or my mom say "I am trying to plan a trip up there to see you the week after you are due" I am thrilled excited and then I remember the Lama rules lol. She didn't ask just announced. :O but both Dh and I are thrilled and its totally okay..... I just keep thinking if how disappointed the lamas would be in me.
Then she says when her and my dad come in August they are bringing my sister (19) up as well for a few days - they come for two weeks and stay in our house (oh no we break more rules!!) - uninvited house guest!
So even though Dh and I love them. They are totally NOT boundary stomping. They actually are amazing with everyone. respect us in so many ways etc. I now keep think WWLS - what would the lamas say. Every time we talk.
Anyone else have the same problem?
This group has been awesome helping with my inlaws BUT has also had me doubting my relationship with my parents.
My dad calls "how are my girls" it use to seem totally okay and normal and now every time I hear him say it I think of this group and cringe.
Or my mom say "I am trying to plan a trip up there to see you the week after you are due" I am thrilled excited and then I remember the Lama rules lol. She didn't ask just announced. :O but both Dh and I are thrilled and its totally okay..... I just keep thinking if how disappointed the lamas would be in me.
Then she says when her and my dad come in August they are bringing my sister (19) up as well for a few days - they come for two weeks and stay in our house (oh no we break more rules!!) - uninvited house guest!
So even though Dh and I love them. They are totally NOT boundary stomping. They actually are amazing with everyone. respect us in so many ways etc. I now keep think WWLS - what would the lamas say. Every time we talk.
Anyone else have the same problem?