For the last three weekends my DH will go over to his mothers on Saturdays and take our son to give me a "break" and so his mother can see the baby since she works all week. I never asked for this "break" but I let it be. I've spent the Saturdays cleaning our home. Well, my issue is that I don't want this to become a regular thing. I don't want my son going over EVERY Saturday. I just know that when I choose not to have my son go over because I'd like to spend the Saturday with my son or as a FAMILY with my son and DH that's it's going to be an issue. I've already somewhat have mentioned to my DH and he became upset that his mother doesn't get to see the baby all week and my mom can. My mom doesn't work and will come over for a couple of hours once or twice a week during the day. And for the last three Saturdays DH always brings his nephew over to stay all weekend. I don't mind every here and there but every weekend? And prior to the baby going over to MIL's she'd come visit us, being nephew and niece and stay all weekend long. I'd really like a weekend with my family and not his whole extended family. His argument is that I'm being unfair because my mom is able to come and see the baby during the week and his isn't. Mind you, my mom is never here for more than a couple of hours and is long gone before DH comes home from work. She understand that for my DH spending all day with his MIL isn't ideal. Please, any input would be helpful. Am I being selfish or unreasonable?
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