I've been a member for 2 years or so. Going anon for this one. I have family and friends on BBC and to be honest I'm a little ashamed that Ilet this happen.
Little BG: My DH and I have been married 15 years. His father is a run of the mill down home bigot. Wraps everything in God and that's just the way it's supposed to be, blah blah blah. Mil enables the shit out of him but likes to appear sweet and simpering.
When DH and I were expecting our ODD we told him that if ever wanted to have any relationship with us or our children he had better keep his opinions to himself. Amazingly he did, until this weekend.
ODD is 13 now and this past summer came out to DH and I. We've known she was gay for a few years but we desided not to say anything to her until she wanted to talk about it. To be clear, it doesn't matter to us one way or the other.She is our daughter and we love and support her regardless of her sexual orientation.
This weekend my Mil, Fil and Sil came to visit. They stayed in a hotel and came to visit on Friday for a few hours and were coming back Saturday night for dinner.
My DD didn't eat with us as she was going for dinner and a movie with her GF. Mil asked why DD wasn't eating with us and DH said she had a date. Mil made some PA remarks but we ignored her. About 20 minutes later I started clearing the table when DDs GF arrived.
DD answered the door and gave GF a little peck. They came into the kitchen to tell me what time GF mother would bring her home. They were holding hands and chatting with me when Fil walked in and saw them.
He just kept starring at their hands for a minute then grabbed my DD by her arm and told her to get to her room, NOW. I told him to get his hands off my daughter. My DH heard me and came in the kitchen and asked what the hell was going on.
Fil started screaming, saying DD was an abomination and how can we allow this to happen. I told DD to leave with GF and they left to go out as planned. Mil came in the kitchen and started crying, literally beating herself in the chest with her fist. Fil and DH are screaming at eachother and I'm trying to tell them to GTFOut when Fil spins around and starts screaming that this is all my fault, that my blood is tainted. (I'm a twin and my twin brother is gay) Fil tried to grab me when DH shoved him. I took out my phone and started calling the cops when Sil takes it from me. She started yelling something about family business, I can't recall exactly how she said it.
DH told them that if they didn't get gone and stay gone he was calling the police. They started grabbing their shit (while still yelling and throwing insults) and as soon as Sil handed my phone back I called the police anyway. Like hell was anyone putting hands on my child.
I filled a report and told them the name of their hotel. Lucky us we got a unicorn officer who kept saying how it was probably just a shock for their generation and how they're faaaaamily. We told him we wanted to press charges.
We ASSumed they had left on Sunday like they previously had planned. However this morning I got a voicemail from Sil. I'll transcribe it in a sec as this is already a novel.
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Homophobic Fil went crazy (long) UD pg10 & 15
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