In a previous thread(which was locked) I explained that my mother is entirely CO.
Since the CO, which I never even told her was happening, she suddenly wants to contact me. Why?
My GG, her grandma, recently passed away and was a wealthy lady. She left me, my siblings, my mother, and other relatives in her will. We all inherited well, my mother got the most. She's a known alcoholic and drug abuser.
After I cut her off, she contacted me via SOs phone and without me even asking, admitted she was using meth again since a week prior to grandma passing, and actively using at that time. Not sure why she wanted to tell me.
Before all of this, I had been struggling financially and hit some bumps in the road. My mom was always trying to buy me and the kids things even when I never asked or mentioned a need. She would call out of the blue and say "___________ is being shipped to your house by (date)". There was no choice in the matter. She NEVER bought these gifts with the intent of repayment, at least not at the time they were purchased.
Back to now, she has already blown through her entire inheritance. It hasnt been 2 months. I only just received mine and havent even touched it yet. She started calling several times per day, but I ignored the calls.
She sent a text:
"I guess you arent going to repay me for all I've done for you. (Sister's name) did. She ALWAYS does."
I havent answered. Part of me wants to tell her off, but maybe I should just leave it alone. I know she just wants drug money now.
Should I reply to her text or would I be wise to continue to ignore her?
Like I said I never told her she was being CO. I just did it. I want to let her know exactly what I think of her, I just dont like being disrespectful even if she doesnt deserve much respect.
Since the CO, which I never even told her was happening, she suddenly wants to contact me. Why?
My GG, her grandma, recently passed away and was a wealthy lady. She left me, my siblings, my mother, and other relatives in her will. We all inherited well, my mother got the most. She's a known alcoholic and drug abuser.
After I cut her off, she contacted me via SOs phone and without me even asking, admitted she was using meth again since a week prior to grandma passing, and actively using at that time. Not sure why she wanted to tell me.
Before all of this, I had been struggling financially and hit some bumps in the road. My mom was always trying to buy me and the kids things even when I never asked or mentioned a need. She would call out of the blue and say "___________ is being shipped to your house by (date)". There was no choice in the matter. She NEVER bought these gifts with the intent of repayment, at least not at the time they were purchased.
Back to now, she has already blown through her entire inheritance. It hasnt been 2 months. I only just received mine and havent even touched it yet. She started calling several times per day, but I ignored the calls.
She sent a text:
"I guess you arent going to repay me for all I've done for you. (Sister's name) did. She ALWAYS does."
I havent answered. Part of me wants to tell her off, but maybe I should just leave it alone. I know she just wants drug money now.
Should I reply to her text or would I be wise to continue to ignore her?
Like I said I never told her she was being CO. I just did it. I want to let her know exactly what I think of her, I just dont like being disrespectful even if she doesnt deserve much respect.