Seriously! Ive spent the last 3.5 years trying to have a decent relationship with this woman but today was the last fucking straw!
This morning she calls me around 8 wanting me to run errands with her. I told her that was fine but i jad an appointment at 2 i could not be late for, so if it was going to take longer than that i would have to pass. She assured me we would be done before noon and if there was time we could grab lunch or something.
So MIL comes and picks up 7mo old DD and myself. Things run late and she REFUSES to take us home. So instead i ask if she will drop us off at my appointment, and id have SO pick me up when we were done. she finally agrees and we get there just before 2. I go to get DD out of her car seat and see she has fallen asleep, i struggle for a couple minutes trying not to wake her up- because her taking a nap is nothing short of a miracle- MIL notices my struggling And says to just leave her and they will wait there for the 15-30 mins my appointment will take. I was grateful, thanked her repeatedly then left.
20 minutes later i come back. Car is gone. I have a mini panic attack as i search the parking lot, they are nowhere to be found! I call MIL but she keeps sending the call to voicemail. Then i remembered that MIL's mother lives near by and MIL likes to visit her.
When i get there MIL is nowhere to be found but DD is there with great grandma who was all ready to chew me out for being so irresponsible and just leaving DD with MIL when i KNEW she had to work at 2:30 (whaaat???)
I was so relieved to know where DD was and that she was safe that all i could do was hold onto her and cry!
SO came and picked us up, he agreed that MIL is NEVER allowed to be alone with DD again and said he is going to have a serious talk with her... if she ever answers the damn phone again! I told him i dont want to even see her for at least 6 months.
There were a bunch of other little things she did today, but those are not even close to important in comparison to this. Im so angry right now i feel like im going to puke.
This morning she calls me around 8 wanting me to run errands with her. I told her that was fine but i jad an appointment at 2 i could not be late for, so if it was going to take longer than that i would have to pass. She assured me we would be done before noon and if there was time we could grab lunch or something.
So MIL comes and picks up 7mo old DD and myself. Things run late and she REFUSES to take us home. So instead i ask if she will drop us off at my appointment, and id have SO pick me up when we were done. she finally agrees and we get there just before 2. I go to get DD out of her car seat and see she has fallen asleep, i struggle for a couple minutes trying not to wake her up- because her taking a nap is nothing short of a miracle- MIL notices my struggling And says to just leave her and they will wait there for the 15-30 mins my appointment will take. I was grateful, thanked her repeatedly then left.
20 minutes later i come back. Car is gone. I have a mini panic attack as i search the parking lot, they are nowhere to be found! I call MIL but she keeps sending the call to voicemail. Then i remembered that MIL's mother lives near by and MIL likes to visit her.
When i get there MIL is nowhere to be found but DD is there with great grandma who was all ready to chew me out for being so irresponsible and just leaving DD with MIL when i KNEW she had to work at 2:30 (whaaat???)
I was so relieved to know where DD was and that she was safe that all i could do was hold onto her and cry!
SO came and picked us up, he agreed that MIL is NEVER allowed to be alone with DD again and said he is going to have a serious talk with her... if she ever answers the damn phone again! I told him i dont want to even see her for at least 6 months.
There were a bunch of other little things she did today, but those are not even close to important in comparison to this. Im so angry right now i feel like im going to puke.