I am due in August and we just moved to new place where we don't know anyone and no close friends yet. So I asked my MIL for help to take care of my 2yr old boy during labor . She refused it so I asked my own mom and she is happy to stay . We were happy as I'm more worried about my 2yr old . Now after my MIL refused I felt little bad but I got over it. Now she has no plan to come and see newborn and she hasn't met my 2yr old since he was 3 months. But she will call daily and say " how's my baby" I just don't like it. She make no effort to meet its just a telephonic relationship. She has an iPod on which she stick some screen protector and whenever we Skype she can see us but her camera is all blurred . I told her that now my son understand grandparents so make ur camera clear . But she won't listen so we stop doing Skype as we can't see anything . She always say I want a boy as they will carry family name. I just hate her about saying this. I am trying to avoid her but once a week we talk and I say all things that I feel bad. DH won't talk to her , he don't like her behavior. I want to know should I also stop talking to her or continue as once a week talk which is more of a fight than talk.
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