So, i dont think this will be sbort, sorry
bg
Dh and have been together 8 years this year. Dh has my dss from first marriage, hes turning 10 this year. When dh and ex split, she up and moved from so cal to portland or.
Everyyear since dss was 3 inlaws make a special vacation to spend a week with dss since theyre still in so cal. Since he was 5 these have been camping trips. Usually cabin camping.
Our little one turns three this year. Inlaws have never one made a trip to see lo. Not birth, birthdays, holidays nada. They only saw her three times when we went to visit. They didnt ever come to seattle the two summers that lo was here that they took dss camping.
By unfortunate situation with jobs we had to spend two months in so cal at my parents, same city as inlaws. Inlaws did very well spending time with lo and getting to know her, kept her over nights and one twoday weekend. She loves them.
So when we moved back to seattle we hoped they would keep up with contact. Nope. Ok she doesnt know the difference, but will in a few years.
Well so they are coming up to take dss for a week during our summer visitation and we suggested maybe they wanted to take lo for the first weekend. No response from text for three days. Then we got a decline on the offer. But they said, why dont you bring her to us that weekend. But pick her back up and bring her the next day. Mind you theyre staying in nowheres ville which is three hours away.
I dont wann atake her. Why force a relationship they dont want right? Its not like they dont know me very long or like me, they seem to like me. Its not that they like ex wife cause they dont. Ita not like lo is a young baby, she even potty trained so camping would not require diapers or such.
Ive had so many ticked of times mad at them for not being a part of her life that i gave up trying and stopped sending pics or letters from her cause they went unacknowldged or reciprocated. But when dss is visiting or her for his weekends during the year sure as heck they want to call or skype.
I dont get it. Back me off a ledge from seriously going off on them this weekend when they ask why i refuse to drive lo to them for a visit at the camp site.
Oh, im not out of line, right?!?
bg
Dh and have been together 8 years this year. Dh has my dss from first marriage, hes turning 10 this year. When dh and ex split, she up and moved from so cal to portland or.
Everyyear since dss was 3 inlaws make a special vacation to spend a week with dss since theyre still in so cal. Since he was 5 these have been camping trips. Usually cabin camping.
Our little one turns three this year. Inlaws have never one made a trip to see lo. Not birth, birthdays, holidays nada. They only saw her three times when we went to visit. They didnt ever come to seattle the two summers that lo was here that they took dss camping.
By unfortunate situation with jobs we had to spend two months in so cal at my parents, same city as inlaws. Inlaws did very well spending time with lo and getting to know her, kept her over nights and one twoday weekend. She loves them.
So when we moved back to seattle we hoped they would keep up with contact. Nope. Ok she doesnt know the difference, but will in a few years.
Well so they are coming up to take dss for a week during our summer visitation and we suggested maybe they wanted to take lo for the first weekend. No response from text for three days. Then we got a decline on the offer. But they said, why dont you bring her to us that weekend. But pick her back up and bring her the next day. Mind you theyre staying in nowheres ville which is three hours away.
I dont wann atake her. Why force a relationship they dont want right? Its not like they dont know me very long or like me, they seem to like me. Its not that they like ex wife cause they dont. Ita not like lo is a young baby, she even potty trained so camping would not require diapers or such.
Ive had so many ticked of times mad at them for not being a part of her life that i gave up trying and stopped sending pics or letters from her cause they went unacknowldged or reciprocated. But when dss is visiting or her for his weekends during the year sure as heck they want to call or skype.
I dont get it. Back me off a ledge from seriously going off on them this weekend when they ask why i refuse to drive lo to them for a visit at the camp site.
Oh, im not out of line, right?!?