Our awesome little son Harrison Thomas made an expected slightly early arrival at 38 weeks on 0645 this 4th of July!
Thank you DWIL, for helping me learn about boundaries. Also teaching me that if somebody doesn't respect you and your wishes as momma bear that being faaaamillly doesn't grant them "rights" to such precious joyful moments for my immediate family. Thank you.
I have post R/T to my mom who has apparently cut herself out after i let her know her very sick behavior would not longer be tolerated. I also have a post regarding my inlaws whom, while not BSC, have had little respect for a deserved TO (FIL rampant, ugly, guilt tripping texts and comments has left the situation unresolved). Inlaws we will be dealing with soon as we needed to get through my high risk pregnancy first with no added stress. I will be updating about that in detail soon, but would prefer those posts not be linked here if possible. This post is about Squish and focusing on the joy ;)
I am now 5 days PP and yet to see any crazy. Registered private at the hospital and have closed down visits for at least another week. I want that time to establish breastfeeding that thankfully is going AWESOME no tongue or lip tie with DS that made it tough to nurse DD. My FIL sent a round of guilt ridden texts to to DH as they work on the same unit at a small hospital (nurses) and a back up staffing list for DH shifts was sent to him about a week before DS arrival (needed to be why i hate that he got a job on DH unit). DH earned multiple gold stars, shut him down, and made it clear it was not his business.
FIL had been told multiple times my uterus contents, and DD were off limits until things are better with me again. DH was pretty upset about his texts as well.without further ado our gorgeous son:
Edited to fix multiple Grammer and typo issues. Will read again and triple check... I promise I'm not regularly so atrocious in that department...