Heard from my Mom that my brother and his wife are upset with my husband and I that we didn't come and meet their new baby soon enough. We live in a different state, and have crazy work schedules, and came in town as soon as we both had a couple days off together. I think the baby was about 10 weeks when we met him. When we had our first I wanted time alone before lots of visitors, and just assumed they would want the same, so we stayed away for a bit. But I'm starting to realize that they are not like us, and were hurt by the fact that we didn't come right away. Brother and his wife haven't said anything to us about this, but my Mom wanted to let us know, but not tell them she said anything. Wonderful. Not sure how to fix this.
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