I went anonymous for this bc it just hurts and some of my friends know my bbc handle and I am not ready to talk about this in real life yet.
So my dad recently had a major coronary event and 2 major surgeries immediately afterwards. One took place on my birthday. I was glad he made it through and felt great. I co ed around the same time. She is evil and I feel so blessed to be able to say I am done with that bitch.
So, now my problem :
My sister called me to make sure I am OK bc my ed attacked me verbally and attacked my sister on facebook. We talk and she says she is going to co bc, well, my father sexually abused her and we are both assuming that is why he is currently paying her support for two adults. She said my GM walked in and walked out when she saw, so she is co. My ed had to have known bc she used to say all the time how I thought my dad was so great and I should ask little sister what he's really like. Now the advice I need is that my sister begged me to pretend all is well and normal with my dad and I told her she is crazy. I live a continent away, so our relationship has been on facebook and the phone. I have zero desire to speak to him , I want nothing from him except his name on a headstone. My sister is my best friend. I would never want to hurt her and I want him to know that I know, but she wants me to keep her secret.
So my dad recently had a major coronary event and 2 major surgeries immediately afterwards. One took place on my birthday. I was glad he made it through and felt great. I co ed around the same time. She is evil and I feel so blessed to be able to say I am done with that bitch.
So, now my problem :
My sister called me to make sure I am OK bc my ed attacked me verbally and attacked my sister on facebook. We talk and she says she is going to co bc, well, my father sexually abused her and we are both assuming that is why he is currently paying her support for two adults. She said my GM walked in and walked out when she saw, so she is co. My ed had to have known bc she used to say all the time how I thought my dad was so great and I should ask little sister what he's really like. Now the advice I need is that my sister begged me to pretend all is well and normal with my dad and I told her she is crazy. I live a continent away, so our relationship has been on facebook and the phone. I have zero desire to speak to him , I want nothing from him except his name on a headstone. My sister is my best friend. I would never want to hurt her and I want him to know that I know, but she wants me to keep her secret.