So i was wrong.
In my previous post, i commented that "i bet after 4 pm i will be back with bad news", its not even 4 yet and already something else happened.
I stated that i didnt mention.leaving and that they have no reason to even suspect it. Well i blew up. And told my mom.
She was putting vitamin C on my hair,(we are both cosmetologists) because she asked if i could do it to her and to keep the peace for the next days following, i did. didnt argue just said sure and did it. so then she offered to do it to me. i said sure why not. So as shes doing it she gets real quiet. She out of no where says to my sister who kicked me, "Does (my husband) talk to you?" and my sister said no. My mom said "did he USED to talk to you?" im just sitting there waiting for the explosion. my sister says "yeah he used to" my mom then asks me, "why is that?" and i say Idk, he doesnt want to? i havent asked him who he talks to and doesnt talk to." and she says, "good to know. so i can have a word with him. cuz living under MY roof--" i cut her off and said "dont worry we are leaving" she said "in september" and i said "this friday" she says where to? i say "someplace that isnt here" and she says "Ok then. well tomorrow clean your room or i will throw all that trash out" that hurt....but whatever....then she got quiet again and started yanking my hair a little harder, my sister giggles and my mom playfully says "what?" and my sister goes "the way you yank her hair" and my mom.goes "im just trying to hurry up" and then she says "just trying to get it all in there so it can look pretty"....then she stays quiet again and says "How sad....how sad youre so young and so bitter. Hopefully your children wont be like that. Youre supposed to be enjoying your pregnancy and be glowing. instead youre just sitting here hating the world being so ugly and bitter" i just said "oh well" and she said "i feel sorry for you" and then finished and left....
We got to our suite at 7 am, it wont be vacant until 11 am, but we are the Walmart near here doing some groceries for the week, very tight on moneybut we are finally out, and it feels GREAT i bet it will feel even better when we are in our room. Oh and I totally forgot I had to be at my moms house today because my medicaid company said they were sending me an application i have to fill because my benefits end soon (something about my immigration status) and of course i dont want to give my mom the address to send it over here so im going to.have to go back.to pick it up because i only get one opportunity/day to fill and send because of. deadline. So wish me luck on my trip back there -__-.and i want to THANK YOU again and a million times, for all your great advice and all your help. Whether it was keeping up with my posts, or one comment, it doesnt matter, THANK YOU :)
In my previous post, i commented that "i bet after 4 pm i will be back with bad news", its not even 4 yet and already something else happened.
I stated that i didnt mention.leaving and that they have no reason to even suspect it. Well i blew up. And told my mom.
She was putting vitamin C on my hair,(we are both cosmetologists) because she asked if i could do it to her and to keep the peace for the next days following, i did. didnt argue just said sure and did it. so then she offered to do it to me. i said sure why not. So as shes doing it she gets real quiet. She out of no where says to my sister who kicked me, "Does (my husband) talk to you?" and my sister said no. My mom said "did he USED to talk to you?" im just sitting there waiting for the explosion. my sister says "yeah he used to" my mom then asks me, "why is that?" and i say Idk, he doesnt want to? i havent asked him who he talks to and doesnt talk to." and she says, "good to know. so i can have a word with him. cuz living under MY roof--" i cut her off and said "dont worry we are leaving" she said "in september" and i said "this friday" she says where to? i say "someplace that isnt here" and she says "Ok then. well tomorrow clean your room or i will throw all that trash out" that hurt....but whatever....then she got quiet again and started yanking my hair a little harder, my sister giggles and my mom playfully says "what?" and my sister goes "the way you yank her hair" and my mom.goes "im just trying to hurry up" and then she says "just trying to get it all in there so it can look pretty"....then she stays quiet again and says "How sad....how sad youre so young and so bitter. Hopefully your children wont be like that. Youre supposed to be enjoying your pregnancy and be glowing. instead youre just sitting here hating the world being so ugly and bitter" i just said "oh well" and she said "i feel sorry for you" and then finished and left....
We got to our suite at 7 am, it wont be vacant until 11 am, but we are the Walmart near here doing some groceries for the week, very tight on moneybut we are finally out, and it feels GREAT i bet it will feel even better when we are in our room. Oh and I totally forgot I had to be at my moms house today because my medicaid company said they were sending me an application i have to fill because my benefits end soon (something about my immigration status) and of course i dont want to give my mom the address to send it over here so im going to.have to go back.to pick it up because i only get one opportunity/day to fill and send because of. deadline. So wish me luck on my trip back there -__-.and i want to THANK YOU again and a million times, for all your great advice and all your help. Whether it was keeping up with my posts, or one comment, it doesnt matter, THANK YOU :)