So, MIL & I have always struggled.. We reconciled before the birth of DD & she has been pretty good with not boundary stomping since dd has been born... Besides her constantly referring to dd as "my baby" (ex:where's my baby!?, oh look at my baby!, I love my baby!, etc) which to, I always respond.. Your baby is *wherever dh is*.
Onto my dilema, MIL approached me about having a "3 month birthday party" for DD, which I was hesitant of. I finally agreed, thinking hmm.. Maybe she will get the party planning out of her system before dd's first bday. Because, there NO WAY IN HELL, anyone but DH and I are planning that. Everything has been fine, until I checked the debil today, and she posted dd's bday invites, captioning.. "celebrating three sweet months with MY baby" and proceeds to call dd 'little love' which is my nn for her and tells all of her debil friends that she is planning to throw her a bday party for every 3months after this one! I'm kinda peeved now, as I feel she is being uncomfortably possessive of dd.
How do I gently take control of this situation? DH agrees that she is over the top and out of line most of the time. But, I do love her and don't want to hurt her feelings. Ik she loves dd and me so much, but more often then not gets carried away,.. What would u dwil mama's do for mils who take a mile when given an inch??
Onto my dilema, MIL approached me about having a "3 month birthday party" for DD, which I was hesitant of. I finally agreed, thinking hmm.. Maybe she will get the party planning out of her system before dd's first bday. Because, there NO WAY IN HELL, anyone but DH and I are planning that. Everything has been fine, until I checked the debil today, and she posted dd's bday invites, captioning.. "celebrating three sweet months with MY baby" and proceeds to call dd 'little love' which is my nn for her and tells all of her debil friends that she is planning to throw her a bday party for every 3months after this one! I'm kinda peeved now, as I feel she is being uncomfortably possessive of dd.
How do I gently take control of this situation? DH agrees that she is over the top and out of line most of the time. But, I do love her and don't want to hurt her feelings. Ik she loves dd and me so much, but more often then not gets carried away,.. What would u dwil mama's do for mils who take a mile when given an inch??