It's kind of awkward being radio silent for 19 years and then being around him! They're visiting this week & I want to know why he hasn't had anything to do with me for so long but can't bring my self to ask why! I don't want to ruin the chance for a relationship with him and SM, and I recently had their first grandbaby so of course I want him to know his grandson. But it's killing me not to ask I keep telling myself to just let it go but a small part of me thinks if I find out why maybe I can keep it from happening again. What do you guys think? should I ask at all ever? Should I wait a while and see if he volunteers the info? Or should I ask him straight up right now? Do you think if I asked him why, it would ruin the chance for a good relationship?
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