Hi everyone. I'm the proud mommy of a beautiful 10-month old baby girl. My problem is that I'm jealous of my baby, especially when it comes to my in-laws (MIL; FIL and two SILs). Although I try to tell myself that I must be reasonable and get over this feeling, I really feel uncomfortable when they're around her, when they hold her or talk to her, play with her, etc.. They've been very sneaky and two-faced in my regards since the day my hubby and I announced we would marry. My two SILs are 36 and 41, they haven't found their soul mate yet and never had children. In the beginning I felt sorry for them, but then I heard them saying mean things against me, behind my back and understood they're jealous witches, along with their mother, my MIL. I talked to my hubby about this situation and my feelings and he's been very simpathetic to me. Moreover my daughter often cries when she sees them and when they hold her, etc..Do you think she feel my discomfort? My hubby decided that we would visit them only once in a while (like once a month). I know it's important for my child to bond with both sets of grandparents, but grandparents should also respect and love their grandchild's mother, and this isn't the case for my ILs. Sorry, I'm from Switzerland, English isn't my native language and the text might contain some mistakes.
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