I posted here once before about my MOO.She has convinced herself she is a psychic that can talk to both the living, the dead, and the unborn. She claimed to have conversation with my baby (I'm 22 weeks pregnant) and said it was a boy and his name was Zachary. I did a lot of reading, both on and off this board, and realized that she's narcissistic. Anyway, she's been on a TO for about a month because of a nasty phone call - no apology, she was just telling 'the truth.' I did talk to her for literally 30 seconds just to tell her I had my 20 week US and it's a girl! (I couldn't resist).
Here's the issue. Way before I got pregnant and realized she was going to be affecting my LO's life in the near future, I agreed to take a week long trip with her. We were going to fly across the country to see my aunt and cousin. As soon as I got pg I told her I was uneasy about going. For one thing, I've had terrible morning sickness that hasn't completely gone away. I finally told her that no, I wasn't going, if anything else than because I don't want the stress of being with her nonstop for a week.
This morning I get a text message from her telling me our flight is next weekend and she'll be driving in the nnight before (we had decided to fly from my city), where she wants to eat before she leaves, who she wants to drive us to the airport (not SO!), and then: good news, she told my aunt all about my money troubles (???) and my aunt agreed to pay for everything for me!
Saving for a baby isn't money trouble and how dare she go behind my back to ask my aunt that !
I texted her back that I wasn't going and she responded: what?? So this means a phone conversation. My only concern is that she'll be so manipulative and button pushing I'll end up saying yes to the trip. I'm still growing a spine, it's a work in progress. Please tell me I'm not crazy and shouldn't go!! This is the woman who tried to convince me to move back home with her insteadof staying with my SO to raise the baby!I'm in my 30s!
Here's the issue. Way before I got pregnant and realized she was going to be affecting my LO's life in the near future, I agreed to take a week long trip with her. We were going to fly across the country to see my aunt and cousin. As soon as I got pg I told her I was uneasy about going. For one thing, I've had terrible morning sickness that hasn't completely gone away. I finally told her that no, I wasn't going, if anything else than because I don't want the stress of being with her nonstop for a week.
This morning I get a text message from her telling me our flight is next weekend and she'll be driving in the nnight before (we had decided to fly from my city), where she wants to eat before she leaves, who she wants to drive us to the airport (not SO!), and then: good news, she told my aunt all about my money troubles (???) and my aunt agreed to pay for everything for me!
Saving for a baby isn't money trouble and how dare she go behind my back to ask my aunt that !
I texted her back that I wasn't going and she responded: what?? So this means a phone conversation. My only concern is that she'll be so manipulative and button pushing I'll end up saying yes to the trip. I'm still growing a spine, it's a work in progress. Please tell me I'm not crazy and shouldn't go!! This is the woman who tried to convince me to move back home with her insteadof staying with my SO to raise the baby!I'm in my 30s!