So some of you know my story w/ DUH and BSC MIL (I don't have the links with bg right now). I finally took everyone's advice and left. There's a bit of a story behind it but I'll save that for later. Long story short I moved in with my aunt and took lo and he moved into his moms with 3dsc. Its been three weeks and you wouldn't believe what he says now. Stuff like how mil is toxic and he doesn't want to be around her he says he realizes I was right and so on. When he moved out of our townhome I moved back. I've agreed to let dsc stay here recently as long as he handles day care because I am in the middle of getting my life together and its about time he steps up and takes care of his kids. I'm starting school soon to become a medical assistant because I need something to pay the bills, until then I'm receiving asst and looking for low income housing. He wants to move back in which is fine because I can't pay the bills so I'm ok with looking for subsidized housing until I can get on my feet. But he still has to stay with her until I find a place. I've already filed for divorce and all of you were right. I'm so much happier knowing that I'm moving on with my life. I start counseling soon.I guess this was just a thank you and a "how about that". Sorry about the grammar and sp. My phone keeps glitching because it's broken.
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