I have not spoken to my mil in 1 1/2 years. She still have limited contact with my husband and kids.I am thinking that my kids do not need to spend anymore time with her at all. I would really like to cut her off from my family. How do I get my husband on board with this?
reasons
1) she talks about me around the kids/ to the kids
2) she tells ds no she cant take him for a sleepever but has dsd and her mother over to her house
3) she has no respect for me and lets my bil around my son when he not supposed to be (ds is not mine but his bio mom is not in his life and only knows me as mom and bil has told ds at least twice I was not his mom)