BG: my FOO is out of state.
. My B is a man child. He is ubber sensitive. He is my only Brother. We don't see each other often. We used to be very close. Ex. Talk on the phone almost daily. We're close in age. However, we have very different ideologies. Twice he has left upset and stopped talking to me for months because I have stand up for my self and dd. the first time it hit me hard. The second, not really.
When dd was born he invited himself over and brought his wife and an aunt. 4 other foo came. It was horrible. They spend 3 days. He left pissed because I would not pass baby around.
After 10 months, he invited himself over again. When I told him the boundaries. He sounded offended. He is in my area but does not answer his phone. I only called once but duh made me call again.
I'm tired of his immaturity. Should I just not call him for the rest of the year? Ever? DUH always guilts trips me though. He says the b is blood and I should get along. But I'm a grown up now. I'm a mom. Is not a good example to my dd to see people who are like him. What do you think?
. My B is a man child. He is ubber sensitive. He is my only Brother. We don't see each other often. We used to be very close. Ex. Talk on the phone almost daily. We're close in age. However, we have very different ideologies. Twice he has left upset and stopped talking to me for months because I have stand up for my self and dd. the first time it hit me hard. The second, not really.
When dd was born he invited himself over and brought his wife and an aunt. 4 other foo came. It was horrible. They spend 3 days. He left pissed because I would not pass baby around.
After 10 months, he invited himself over again. When I told him the boundaries. He sounded offended. He is in my area but does not answer his phone. I only called once but duh made me call again.
I'm tired of his immaturity. Should I just not call him for the rest of the year? Ever? DUH always guilts trips me though. He says the b is blood and I should get along. But I'm a grown up now. I'm a mom. Is not a good example to my dd to see people who are like him. What do you think?