I sure wish I'd found this board 7 years ago! My MIL is crazy, still stalking us online, turning the rest of DH's family against us, etc etc. Thank goodness my DH rocks, I was the one that was weak at first, I grew up with an awesome mom, I couldn't imagine a "mom" could act like his. So I found you all and love the term "unicorn" I used to fight with mine, but I think it's pretty much already a canned meat product ;).