My DH and I have been married for nearly 11 years. We have two DD and a baby due in January. The problem I have with DH cousin is that he is always coming over he even stays the night on the weekends at times. This wouldn't be as big of a problem if DH didn't have to stay out of town through the week but he does and I feel like my children and I should be able to spend time with him on the weekends without his cousin constantly showing up. Last week his cousin came over with some kind of stomach bug which I wasn't aware of until he asked if I had any good prescription drugs for upset stomach since I was pregnant. I then asked are you sick and he was like yeah then two minutes later he said "well looks like I'm going to have to go defile your bathroom" after which he did not wash his hands. I was so ticked off I went to my room. He stayed all day long. It also seems like when he comes over he expects for us to feed him or if we go to eat he tags along and DH ends up paying for his meal. He is unemployed and lives with his mother, he is 28 years old and has 3 kids that he doesn't pay child support for bc he doesn't have a job. I have talked to DH about this and it seems to help for a brief period and then it seems like his cousin is over all the time again. He also referred to me as "a baby maker" a few weeks ago which I really didn't appreciate. He is absolutely disgusting and has no hygiene skills what so ever. How do I get him to stop coming over so much? Should I leave it up to DH or should I finally say something to him myself?
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