So here I am 31 weeks... Let me start with the beginning. I find out I am preggo the day my dad passes away suddenly. 2 weeks after that my inlaws have my husband at their house EVERY weekend doing their roof for 3 months. He was home for 2 months of weekends, but been back at it over at the inlaws doing their gutters. I still don't have a nursery!! I can't carry the crib upstairs, or move the furniture or even cut my own grass! I pulled a groin overdoing it with housework. Plus I WANT to experience this with my husband. He is a puss when it comes to standing up to his parents. So beyond that my FIL booked a fishing trip for my husband and him in Montana (we r in Philly!) and he booked it during our birthing prep class. Now I have to go alone. I feel like I will be the only one alone, and people are going to look at me like some knocked up single mom who doesn't know her "baby daddy". It is humiliating. Not to mention, I want my husband prepped for what to expect out of labor. I asked my FIL today if he can postpone or fly out a day later and he said no. I am so mad for being disregarded. FIL says "you go to the hospital, you have the baby, you bring him home, you'll be ok" That comment made me so angry, plus i am having a girl!! Why don't I matter?! Who takes a trip 5 weeks before their baby's due date. I am soo frustrated so it all came to a head when I confronted my husband and we got in a huge fight and I tried to vent to my MIL about the fight. She told me I need to choose my battles and that not everything comes wrapped in pretty little packages, and I may not always get my way. Really?!?!
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