Anyone dealing with a NM? I had no idea why had so much difficulty dealing with my Mother all those years (I thought it was the stress of being with my bump-on-log alcoholic Father). I discovered recently the title for her behavior and it feels sooo good to read books and understand better what I've been 'trying' to deal with my whole life. I finally decided a few months ago to stop 'trying' and cut off all contact with her (not that she has had any problem with) and it feels soooo good to be rid of all the negativity she created. Of course I get very sad at times that this is the way it has to be but it is definitely best for our family.
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