Sooo...I have a pretty crazy mother. She is an alcoholic (denies this, of course) and anxiety/depression issues (semi-treated with meds). I try really hard to be understanding with her bc she has medical issues, but there is only so much crazy one person can take.
I usually talk to her or text everyday/every other day (which I am ok with) but if she doesn't hear from me for a few days she assumes I am dead and starts calling my DH, friends, and messaging me on FB (which I am not ok with). I try to point out her crazy and help her manage it, but it's like talking to a brick wall. I already have 1 baby to raise. I don't have time to raise an adult child, too.
So all her crazy finally just got on my nerves enough that I told her I needed a break from her and would contact her when I wanted to resume communication. It was absolutely AMAZING how her reactions fell directly in line with the typical BSC response that you all so accurately predict.
1. She, first, did not leave me alone and began informing me that I had lost my mind and probably should get checked out for the crazy ;) "You are someone that you don't even know right now!"
2. She then tried to act like everything was all good and started asking about DS and when she could come visit. She wanted to come that day, but forgot she had to ask first (mind you she lives 2 hours away).
3. I blocked her on my phone so I did not have to hear the phone ringing from her calls and texts. She continues to tag me in statuses on the debil and pretend we are besties.
4. In accordance to the laws of BSC she now has a medical emergency (that I, of course, am causing). Her BP is through the roof and I am "killing her".
I write all of this to tell you all thank you very much! This was all very expected and almost comical how it unfolded. I expect a lawn tantrum in the near future. I feel so much better prepared for all family interaction from reading here over the last year. You all are wonderful!
Have a lovely evening being awesome :)