Sorry this poll is really long I really need to get it off my chest tho and prove to my fiancé that I'm not just being selfish. (Atleast I don't think I am) So at the end of July my fiancé tells me that his mom is coming to stay with us for a little while because she got evicted and had nowhere to go, I wasn't asked but told. She said she would be out by the end of September. Well I had no choice so I had to just adjust and deal plus she said she'd cook, clean, do yard work and watch Christian (my son) but I did say she couldn't bring her 3 cats. Well they move in and she brings all her cats, even tho I'm mad I said she had to keep them in the room, I don't want them roaming my house. Ok so let me just start by saying she left the door open so her cats roamed my house and she NEVER turned the lights off and she has 2 other kids living here too, 14 & 11. Everything was ok at first except I was upset that the lights were always on and she wasn't paying any bills. (Our light bill is 275 this month) she did say she would pay it, but now she can't because she needs to save her money so she is gonna pay part which is fine. I have been looking for them a place to live as this was just temp and got an application to apartments for her, well she never filled it out and I kept asking my fiancé if she turned it in and he'd never ask. Finally I called them and they had the same number on the waiting list so I know she didn't so I told Kyle (my fiancé) he had to tell her to fill it out...she has been here over a month and isn't gonna get out if she doesn't get on the list. Well she ripped it up cause she got mad at me and then started hiding things she bought in her room so my son couldn't eat or drink any of it!! She uses out laundry soap, toilet paper, paper towels, cat litter etc...but won't buy any of it because she can't afford to buy it for my house and save for her to get out. There is a ton more going on that I don't agree with but that will turn this already long post into a novel. But before I ask who is right let me just add that once I turned the light off in the room she is I'm because she isn't in there and I come back 2 mins later the light is back on and she wasn't in there and got mad and slammed the door because I turned the light off in my house...also turned the tv off on my son last night because her kid complained he didn't want to watch tv. So who do you think is in the right. My fiancé is in the middle of it all and gets mad at me when I get upset because "I'm only thinking of myself" I'm sorry this is so long...we are TTC but I'm stessing and upset because I feel like they are taking over my house.
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