http://community.babycenter.com/post/a45216151/horrible_email_from_my_father-in-law_not_to_mention_sexist_and_racist...
So, Baby Wesley has arrived! I've never been so in love! However, our precious first week together is being tainted by FIL - a likely narcissist. FIL has been CO since he sent us the horrible email above. Now that baby is here, DuH is all ready to forgive him. There has been no attempt at an apology or even any admittance of any wrongdoing from FIL. He even had the guts to say that the name we chose for our son was a saint's name (btw it's not and that had no bearing on choosing our son's name) because he thinks he "won".
He has been complaining to MIL and anyone that will listen that he's mad that he hasn't met his grandson and he's waiting on an invitation.(We still have contact with MIL) I personally never planned on extending one, but DuH is all ready to let things blow over and wants to spend Christmas at his parents house. I don't think I can even look at FIL, let alone see him hold my son. It makes me want to cry and scream and throw up all at the same time. FIL is a horrible person and I don't feel like I 'owe' him anything just because he is related to DH (DH is a pushover because he's used to it - FIL always got his way in their house growing up). I need help, what should I do? I want to stand strong, but DuH and MIL are making me feel like I'm being a mean, unfair bitch.
So, Baby Wesley has arrived! I've never been so in love! However, our precious first week together is being tainted by FIL - a likely narcissist. FIL has been CO since he sent us the horrible email above. Now that baby is here, DuH is all ready to forgive him. There has been no attempt at an apology or even any admittance of any wrongdoing from FIL. He even had the guts to say that the name we chose for our son was a saint's name (btw it's not and that had no bearing on choosing our son's name) because he thinks he "won".
He has been complaining to MIL and anyone that will listen that he's mad that he hasn't met his grandson and he's waiting on an invitation.(We still have contact with MIL) I personally never planned on extending one, but DuH is all ready to let things blow over and wants to spend Christmas at his parents house. I don't think I can even look at FIL, let alone see him hold my son. It makes me want to cry and scream and throw up all at the same time. FIL is a horrible person and I don't feel like I 'owe' him anything just because he is related to DH (DH is a pushover because he's used to it - FIL always got his way in their house growing up). I need help, what should I do? I want to stand strong, but DuH and MIL are making me feel like I'm being a mean, unfair bitch.