I have some BG here regarding our planned trip back home for Thanksgiving, and my concerns regarding my BSC mother. However I am in my phone and can't link.
Those concerns will no longer be an issue. My mom is CO fillowing yet another blow out on the debil yesterday. Why didn't I do this sooner?
After being a DuW of epic proportions for years I finally woke up. After she deliberately tried to bait DH into an argument in which she called him names and said he was keeping me and our son from her I'm done dealing with her. I told DH to have at it (he's been dying to tell her off for years) and when he was done we both blocked her. We won't be answering any forms of communication. She'll likely try to send Christmas presents (bribery is her favorite form of rug sweeping her bouts of BSC) but they will be sent back.
It's amazing how relieved I am knowing I don't even have to deal with her when we're in town for Thanksgiving. Or ever. Any advice for ignoring the BSC that will come when she realizes I'm serious about this?
Those concerns will no longer be an issue. My mom is CO fillowing yet another blow out on the debil yesterday. Why didn't I do this sooner?
After being a DuW of epic proportions for years I finally woke up. After she deliberately tried to bait DH into an argument in which she called him names and said he was keeping me and our son from her I'm done dealing with her. I told DH to have at it (he's been dying to tell her off for years) and when he was done we both blocked her. We won't be answering any forms of communication. She'll likely try to send Christmas presents (bribery is her favorite form of rug sweeping her bouts of BSC) but they will be sent back.
It's amazing how relieved I am knowing I don't even have to deal with her when we're in town for Thanksgiving. Or ever. Any advice for ignoring the BSC that will come when she realizes I'm serious about this?