Would you consider this PA?

So I've been given advice to stop seeing my mom so much due to her thinking she can have input on what I feed my Child. I'm getting a little BEC and so what i'm wondering is this BEC or did she confirm what I thought? Also I have stepped back a lot in the last few weeks.


So I went over there for the first time in a while and we were watching a show and the lady had to leave her child with her mom for two days. It was the first time this lady had ever left her child. So the lady calls her mom to check in and says "hey mom when I drop him off at daycare I do xyz but do it your way call me back"


My mom pipes in see she told her mom to do whatever she wants. I then say no what she really meant is I do it this way so do it that way without actually saying it. She then said nothing. So lo is sitting there with his sippy and he sometimes takes a drink and spits it back out no matter what it is. She then says "see he needs something besides water and milk all the time. He needs tea or lemonade" I said no that is bad for his teeth" she then comes in with " you let him have some at thanksgiving and I let you have it"

I reply with "mom I also gave him a Christmas cookie but that doesn't mean he gets one every week!" This ended the discussion. I feel like though she thinks she can have free region on my child.