We have Mil on low contact due to her boundary stomping, trying to co parent and trying to get me to stop breastfeeding.
Before I got pregnant mil and i had a fine relationship, well she made it clear she wasn't that into me and I made it clear the feeling was mutual! We were civil, but distant. Mil is obsessed with DH and now LO. She tried to make nice with me to get in with the baby but I bh'd so she used her guilt trips on DH. Lately DH has been getting more and more off her, she's driving him crazy so he has been avoiding her.
DH is at work and I used his computer. He doesn't use his email often and when I check there were a few new msgs, all from Mil. Then there was one from "Fil" which is hilarious because he can't even text! It's clearly written by Mil. Reading through the emails got me so pissed, and I re read through the email where she told DH I was hurting Lo by poisoning her with toxins in my milk breast feeding (yep) ( she thinks if I want breastfeeding she could baby sit) anyway I got pissed and I might have replied. ... The thing is I wrote it as if it was coming from DH as I was in his account, so now basically MIl and I are having a war both hiding under the accounts of DH and FIL, wtf! Should I shoot a quick email saying by the way this is Lisa, or should I just leave it as I know DH would send these things to her if I asked him, but we agreed to just bh..
Before I got pregnant mil and i had a fine relationship, well she made it clear she wasn't that into me and I made it clear the feeling was mutual! We were civil, but distant. Mil is obsessed with DH and now LO. She tried to make nice with me to get in with the baby but I bh'd so she used her guilt trips on DH. Lately DH has been getting more and more off her, she's driving him crazy so he has been avoiding her.
DH is at work and I used his computer. He doesn't use his email often and when I check there were a few new msgs, all from Mil. Then there was one from "Fil" which is hilarious because he can't even text! It's clearly written by Mil. Reading through the emails got me so pissed, and I re read through the email where she told DH I was hurting Lo by poisoning her with toxins in my milk breast feeding (yep) ( she thinks if I want breastfeeding she could baby sit) anyway I got pissed and I might have replied. ... The thing is I wrote it as if it was coming from DH as I was in his account, so now basically MIl and I are having a war both hiding under the accounts of DH and FIL, wtf! Should I shoot a quick email saying by the way this is Lisa, or should I just leave it as I know DH would send these things to her if I asked him, but we agreed to just bh..