Last week has been a very difficult time for me and DH. We had some clashes and our inlaws got to hear of it. Response? Mum in law wrote me some messages criticizing me. My personality and anything she possibly could do. Some of the things she wrote were very heavy and absolutely inappropriate. I almost got a depression from beginning to think I am a horrible person. Of course I got support from mother and a friend to help me start feeling better and now I intend to only focus on positive things and take those comments out. Father in law said nothing and that he doesnt wanna speak to me until I have delivered because he agrees to what mum in law said, I am not a nice person.
My verdict, I absolutely dont want them to even see the child when he is born. I will cut them out and they are not worth to be in our lives nor the child's life. DH has taken a stand, he is with me though I know he would like them to come see the child. But I intend to be firm on this as some of the comments they passed are shocking and seemed like a deliberate attempt to make me feel bad about myself. Why would anyone try to make a 29week pregnant woman start feeling bad about themselves??? What do you think and what would you do?