So thanks to the drama surrounding christmas. Mil demanding that if I allow 17 year old bil to spend a weekend, that I have to allow 4 year old to spend the same ammount of time. Demanding to take 8 mo dd and 2 yo dd to spend days at a time. I dropped the rop with mil. Didn't hear anything from anyone till last week. Dh stayed overnight at her house because he was too tired to drive home. (He works minutes away from her home. While we live about an hour away) He slept there, got up in the morning and went to work at 5 am per normal schedual for everyone who works at the place (95% of our towns) I get a call at about 9 am saying I needed to bring my kids to her house by the end of the day. And if I didn't she would tell the police i am keeping dd's from their dad. Contacted dh and he was bewildered by her actions. I called her back and said I wasn't bringing my kids to her house (fail I know) she insisted that someone would pick them up and bring them to her. I told her no that my kids were staying with me. And then said goodbye. Dh came home. We talked. We fought, slept on the problem, fought again. And then finally agreed on a 3 month time out from mil and sil. Bil is allowed to come visit at his own person as long as mil/sfil give him an ok. (I trust him not to lie about getting permission) My only worry is that we will get housing in their town that is around half the price of all other housing in our area. But dh and I agreed that EVERYONE will have to give a 24 hour notice before wanting to visit. We will not be babysitting sil and our kids will not be alone with mil/sfil till they are at least 5.
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