It is 10.30pm here. I am at home with (luckily) 2 toddlers sleeping while DH is at IL's place, giving "moral support" because his parents have a quarrel.
Is it weird?
Before he went there around 8.30 pm, I mentioned, if they have a fight, they shouldnt bring an outsider. If we quarrel, we dont call anybody in.
My relationship with the ILs is not close. You know, boundary stomps, PA comments, etc. Not toxic, but suffocating me, so i put some 'barrier'. DH is usually not DuH.
Please give me some input about what to tell to DH about this weirdness.
If you need more info or background, I wilI gladly provide it.
Is it weird?
Before he went there around 8.30 pm, I mentioned, if they have a fight, they shouldnt bring an outsider. If we quarrel, we dont call anybody in.
My relationship with the ILs is not close. You know, boundary stomps, PA comments, etc. Not toxic, but suffocating me, so i put some 'barrier'. DH is usually not DuH.
Please give me some input about what to tell to DH about this weirdness.
If you need more info or background, I wilI gladly provide it.