My ILs have done an 180 *update page 9, 20*
BG: Before I was pregnant I got along fine with my PIL. During my pregnancy they started saying typical DWIL type things but I was able to put an end to it real quick. Right after DS was born they were...
View ArticleMIL made us shake with anger… invite her to LO’s bday? LONG
Here is a link to my BG: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a46580008/possibly_coing_sil_need_advice_on_dni_and_mil. So, the visit over New Year with MIL went pretty well, so I didn't feel the...
View Articleso done, so hurt - update p. 10, email 20, vm 20, vm 36, vm 43
I'm sorry if this is a mess. I'm really upset and I'm posting from my phone. Tonight we saw pil for dinner and gift exchange. There was some major eye rolling comments from mil and some of dh sharing...
View ArticleNarc mom and "her""Sally" -- warning major TRIGGER Updates p. 15, 23, 36
Warning: my entire post contains triggers. NOTE: My FOO issue is rather stale but I have updates regarding pregnancy issues on page 23. (Just so people don't read all the way through and get annoyed...
View ArticleWhat did you see today that made you think of DWIL?
I'm at swim ming lessons with my DD. one of the little girls usually comes with her mom. Today her dad and grandmother are here. The grandmother will not sit down and she keeps calling out instructions...
View ArticleDuBF and his parents coming to visit...
I have so much BG. I am on my phone and can't link it. About a month ago I decided that Dubf parents could come visit at some point during this late spring early summer time. I mentioned this casually...
View ArticleDH and MIL ruining Christmas and my birthday.. HELP! Update Pg 4, 9
I am having some trouble with my MIL but DH doesn't see where her behaviors/actions are an issue. I am just going to list the behaviors or things that she's said and if you ladies could give your input...
View Article7 weeks pregnant and preparing myself for MIL issues to come
So I am 7 weeks pregnant with my rainbow baby, had a miscarriage in November. DH is an only child and MIL is very overbearing and controlling, DH's dad is not in the picture at all. I have one sister...
View ArticleFOO - Brother Addiction - Trigger - Update pg 7
I tried to post this under a new account – but maybe it was too long & the account was new – I don’t know and I don’t care. I wanted privacy, but I need feedback more. SO if you see this...
View Articleugh in-laws...
my lo is my in-law's first grandchild (but my parents' 7th) and they live 2 hours away vs 30 minutes for my parents, they definitely forgot what having a newborn around is like abd when she was 4 weeks...
View ArticleHow to handle a sticky MIL/SIL situation
I am expecting baby 2 a boy. We already have a DD. When my DD was born SIL got really mean and nasty to to me because we chose to vaccinate. My pediatrician has advised no extended contact with known...
View ArticleFIL has HepC...(trigger)
So I've known my FIL has HepC almost as long as I've known him (5 years). When I found out and when my husband and I dated and even got married kids was never on the table and I had taken safety...
View ArticleJust want to vent for a minute
We are expecting our first in the next week or so. I really don't mind the fact that my inlaws are too self consumed to give two shits about our lives, but I can't help but feel bad for my hubby. He's...
View ArticleProud moment with my DH :D
We woke up with a text from MIL.. "Do we have a baby yet?" Before I even knew about it, he had texted her back, "You dont... and neither do we." 20 minutes later I had my first ctx and Ive been...
View ArticleMIL is nearly impossible to tolerate
I really don't know what to do anymore. Continue to sweep all the back handed comments and crazy antics under the rug the rest of my life or mend fences and put a fake smile on! Been with my husband...
View Article"Why does it bother you?" *Update* Pg 12, 16
That's DH's question to me today. I have BG but am mobile right now, but I'm one of the many posters who was pissed about MIL making Christmas cards with pics of my LO. We never got one of those cards,...
View ArticleNom nom (needy IL)
It is 10.30pm here. I am at home with (luckily) 2 toddlers sleeping while DH is at IL's place, giving "moral support" because his parents have a quarrel. Is it weird? Before he went there around 8.30...
View ArticleAm I BEC? Or justified?
I have BG that I will link at the end. To catch everyone up, DH and I were in counseling and the counselor suggested that we bring MIL in. I know that is anti- DWIL protocol, but Dh and I discussed...
View ArticleOutside insight Welcome re: unstable MIL
I don't want to leave a long, drawn out vent. I will try to be quick and to the point. My MIL has had issues since long before I came into the picture in 2006. I know she has/had substance abuse...
View ArticleHow do I deal with such a pissy "MIL"
This woman is so pissy all the time! Even to me. She's always bitching about something. Last time I went over she was complaining about fingerprints on her coffee table cuz SO and I had a game night...
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