i read the sticky and am going to try and write this to the best of my ability ......
so alot of you read my previous post and wanted to know what the incident with my sister was and didnt quite get the whole story.
when i went to my dads house this weekend to meet his girlfriend i was aware of two things. my sister would not be there and niether would my dad. it was supposed to be me and my dads girlfriend of two years meeting for the first time and making cookies.
i should add that me and my dad do not get along. i cut him off two years ago and only just started talking to him again in october of last year.this was my way of trying to play nice.
now for my sister. my sister is a piece of work. since i have moved back into the states she has gon from excited about my pregnancy(understandable) to slightly annoying and now the excitment has warn off and she being a complete and total shit.and most of my family believes its because shes gone from being the oldest and only golden child(shes 19) to being second in command and is acting out because of this. i have cut her off and stopped answering her calls but she has to be anywhere i am and will be if she can for instance showing up at my house un invited and just walking in like she owns the place and being a total brat(we have started locking the doors)
now back to making cookies by myself with dads girlfriend i get there and of course ask where my dad was going to be. opening that can of worms but that waits to blow up till the next morning. so here me and my step mom and her daughter are chit chatting when low and behold in walks my sister who found out i was there and just had to join us.ugh so im sitting there ignnoring her comments about how omg big my ass tits and tummy are(she likes to point this out to take attention away from her 200 pounds)when she spots my laptop bag.
i keep a box of cheez-it grooves a can of cheez wiz and a package of oreos on me at all times(im pregnant shoot me) all of them were un opened and new because i had just been to the store. my lovely sister gasps and picks up my oreos.i then proceed to ask her not to open them im not ready for them to be gotten into yet. my sister looked at me laughed like HA! and proceeded to open the package and takes about four. this was her first strike....
so about an hour later we are all in the family room watching a movie when i notice my sister is missing(so are the dogs). i got up and walked into the front room to find my sister sitting on the couch chowing down on my cheez-its. half the fucking box was already gone! i snatched the box from her and told her to stay out of my food she didnt pay for it! she scoffed and told me i needed to remember who the hell i was talking too..this was the second straw......
so over the whole night my sister has been asking to touch my baby bump. i have issues with being touched i will leave it at that no further questions i dont want to talk about it.i refused her requests all six of them.when she asked a seventh time i told he NO! dont ask me again if you touch me i will slap you so hard you will spin. she stopped asking.
so here i am i just busted this little brat stealling my food and sassing me because i told her to quit her shit. we were both back in the family room and i was just easing back into the computer chair in there using both hands to do so.my sister sees this and LUNGES for my belly.because she wasnt paying attention to what she was doing she bumped into the computer chair and made it slide backward causing me to almost miss the fucking chair as im trying to sit....this was her third strike. i was livid so i shot up out of the chir pushing her off me and....did i not so nice thing with the back of my hand.....
so thats it for all who wanted to know what the incident with my sister was there it is im sorry i didnt get this up sooner i had things i had to get done ..
im aware i didnt handle myself in a very mature way but i would like to see someone keep there hands to shemselves after going through that..