I can't deal with this anymore. My MIL is a nightmare to deal with her drama, sneaking, and my husband acts like he is afraid to start a war. I don't want to get into how bad she is, but I have serious concerns and told my husband to get her to move with his sister give her a turn. We fully support her because she can't keep a job, sleeps all day, and sells her food stamps that was the only thing she brought to the table. I'm convinced a nanny is cheaper. I have on on standby for 100 dollars a night to work my 12 hour shift my kids mostly sleep through. It was the only reason my DH said she should stay. But he enables her by turning his head when we know she is high, buying her cigs, slipping her 20's when we stopped giving her money because she'd by drugs and beer with it and nothing else. I am at the point I'm almost ready to take our 3 girls and leave him if she stays. I'm afraid now I see she is an addict and has addict behaviors. Since I found out she relapsed she left on her own! And he took her back !!!....with a now you have to make plans to live with your daughter ... Because my wife ...but no she still is in my house with 0 responsibilities because I don't want her to have any over my precious girls! Thanks for letting me cry and scream on this board. I'm having a baby I don't trust her near all my babies!!!!never mind I have to keep everything that's not bolted down on lock down so it won't get sold for what ever she is doing at the time.
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