BG: DH was basically tricked into thinking that he had a son with a female. DH and female had a unstable relationship and female slept with someone else (resulting in pregnancy) while DH was training for the military. DH took care of responsiblities until he went to put child on military insurance. DNA test had to be done for this (since they were not married); DNA came back excluding DH as the father. Thus, DH completely cut all ties with female because of betrayal. DH's family was also very upset about this situation and cut ties with female as well (or so I thought).
SIL had been very close to the female until the drama. Female has also told SIL that the child is still DH's because "they gave him milk" before the test. DH has repeatedly told SIL that he doesn't want his immediate family to have any contact with female. SIL has stated repeatedly that she understands, yet DH and I are always seeing pictures of them together, etc. I have expressed my concerns to DH regarding SIL being "so close" to female after all the pain and suffering she caused him and his family. Especially since female is still spreading lies about the paternity of the child. I don't want the female to associatied with DH, me, or our children at all. I'm afraid that SIL talks about us with the female. *sidenote* I have never really had the best relationship with SIL.
Should I CO SIL until she gets it? Or is that being dramatic? Should I just delete her off my social networks so I don't see any pictures, etc. of SIL and female? (Then, SIL wouldn't be able to see pictures (, etc.) I take of my kids.) Should I just leave it in my DH's hands and get over it? Maybe I'm just jealous of SIL and female's relationship while the relationship between SIL and me are lacking?