If anyone's interested, here's a link to the BG:
http://community.babycenter.com/post/a48957091/help_me_help_duh_with_letter_to_mil?cpg=3&pd=-1
Basically DH sent MIL a text saying if she couldn't respect me she had no place in our lives.
We have heard nothing from her since then. DH and I have a joint bank account, and the app shows all our purchases. I look at it today and there are two bills from flowers.com. Obviously my alarm bells go off because MIL is the only other woman he would send flowers to for Mother's Day. I check the tracking and yup, I was right.
I'm trying so hard not to be angry. It's his mom right? He can send whatever to whoever he wants. His best friend who doesn't really know all the details was guilt tripping him on the phone last week that he should 'at least send her a basket or something' and I'm thinking maybe that's what got to him.
I feel like after that letter WTF??
He made it clear how he felt and she has said nothing so obviously she doesn't give a fuck. I feel like he's sending mixed messages by sending a gift, and that she'll see it as, 'Oh, DH still loves me and evil MagicVajDIL was behind that text.' What do I do? I'm so angry and really feeling kinda betrayed.
http://community.babycenter.com/post/a48957091/help_me_help_duh_with_letter_to_mil?cpg=3&pd=-1
Basically DH sent MIL a text saying if she couldn't respect me she had no place in our lives.
We have heard nothing from her since then. DH and I have a joint bank account, and the app shows all our purchases. I look at it today and there are two bills from flowers.com. Obviously my alarm bells go off because MIL is the only other woman he would send flowers to for Mother's Day. I check the tracking and yup, I was right.
I'm trying so hard not to be angry. It's his mom right? He can send whatever to whoever he wants. His best friend who doesn't really know all the details was guilt tripping him on the phone last week that he should 'at least send her a basket or something' and I'm thinking maybe that's what got to him.
I feel like after that letter WTF??
He made it clear how he felt and she has said nothing so obviously she doesn't give a fuck. I feel like he's sending mixed messages by sending a gift, and that she'll see it as, 'Oh, DH still loves me and evil MagicVajDIL was behind that text.' What do I do? I'm so angry and really feeling kinda betrayed.