So on mothers day I told my DH that I did not want to see MIL b/c her and I dont exactly get along well. He didn't argue with me about it then, we had a nice day with our three children and I thought everything was ok. Until this morning when he took 2 of our children over to her house before myself or our oldest was even awake. When he came home we got in a huge fight and he states that MIL made him feel awful last week about not spending mothers day with her and so he wanted to take the kids over there this morning to make up for it. He aparantly was not happy with the whole thing of not going over to her house for mothers day and has a chip on his shoulder about it and is mad at me now about it. I'm 4 days away from giving birth to our 4th child and now we are fighting about his mom and mothers day which was a week ago and Im so upset.
I'd like for him to realize that one, its not normal for a mother to give her grown son so much grief and guilt trip for not spending mothers day with her but instead with the mother of his children. He seems to think everyone spends mothers day with their mother... even though I haven't spent mothers day with my mother in 6 years b/c she lives in another state and his brother did not spend mothers day at MIL's house either. But aparantly it was ok for BIL to miss mothers day but not my DH??!!!