I have always been close with my mil, she went to almsot all of my ob appointments, checked on me regularly while I was pregnant and the first few weeks after birth. We used to go to church and shopping together. She has recently seperated from her husband(my df step father) She has a new bf, even though, she still lives with her husband for the time being.She has been lying to my sil about and ditching her three boys for the past couple months now. She got mad last week bc my dd was asleep whenever she came over. Well, it was a last minute invite herself over and it took her over an hour to get here when she was 10 minutes away. She brought two girls that looked about my age(21) and were dressed like SLUTS. She didnt tell me they were coming, she didnt ask, and she couldnt even tell me one of the girls' name. She was also rude bc my df waited on her for an hour before he went and bought us lunch and wasnt there whenever she finally did show up. She has been partying, lying, staying out all night, among other bad choices. That is her bussiness and I have no place to judge. BUT, my df has invited her and her bf over saturday afternoon so that he can meet him and talk to her. My question is, even though she hasnt seen dd in a few weeks, is it wrong to take her to my dad's house(next door) while they are here? I feel like this is a start of a whole string of bfs for her( I dont see this particular relationship lasting, Ive heard from a few different people that new bf is cheating on her already) and I dont want my daughter around just anyone. Especially, someone I have never met before. So, is it wrong for dd to not be home when they show up?
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