I posted a week or so ago about my MIL. The BG is around here somewhere...
Anyway, our original plan was to put MIL on a TO until the end of April. We just planned on seeing each other on Easter and not speaking to her before that. I originally told my DH he could have her over while I'm at work, but I retracted that decision and told him our son was off limits (to her) too while on TO. She then said some crazy shit on the phone which led to a much longer TO.
Over the weekend, my mom had LO overnight so DH and I could spend Valentine's Day alone. When we returned home, my FIL called but we figured it was about MIL and didn't feel like dealing with it until today. We called FIL and luckily , MIL was running errands. FIL said over the weekend he went through the deep freezer in the garage and found "bags" of something frozen with my name on it. He said he wasn't sure what it was, but it looked like milk. I handed the phone to DH and immediately started crying. I didn't need to confirm what it was. MIL had been stealing my breast milk. I ran into the garage and looked in the freezer, although I wouldn't know the difference if a couple bags had been taken. (I pump while I'm at work and sometimes at home, and have a HUGE supply in our freezer in our garage.) I've never felt so violated in my life.
DH finished with FIL on the phone and then came to comfort me. I told him that woman will never be around me or my son again. I'm done. He said he was going to talk to her later this week. He said he just wants the whole story and an explanation but it won't change how creeped out and pissed off he is.
I hope this doesn't read as a vent or rant. I just wanted to give everyone an update.
Anyway, our original plan was to put MIL on a TO until the end of April. We just planned on seeing each other on Easter and not speaking to her before that. I originally told my DH he could have her over while I'm at work, but I retracted that decision and told him our son was off limits (to her) too while on TO. She then said some crazy shit on the phone which led to a much longer TO.
Over the weekend, my mom had LO overnight so DH and I could spend Valentine's Day alone. When we returned home, my FIL called but we figured it was about MIL and didn't feel like dealing with it until today. We called FIL and luckily , MIL was running errands. FIL said over the weekend he went through the deep freezer in the garage and found "bags" of something frozen with my name on it. He said he wasn't sure what it was, but it looked like milk. I handed the phone to DH and immediately started crying. I didn't need to confirm what it was. MIL had been stealing my breast milk. I ran into the garage and looked in the freezer, although I wouldn't know the difference if a couple bags had been taken. (I pump while I'm at work and sometimes at home, and have a HUGE supply in our freezer in our garage.) I've never felt so violated in my life.
DH finished with FIL on the phone and then came to comfort me. I told him that woman will never be around me or my son again. I'm done. He said he was going to talk to her later this week. He said he just wants the whole story and an explanation but it won't change how creeped out and pissed off he is.
I hope this doesn't read as a vent or rant. I just wanted to give everyone an update.