My problem is, is that I'm not sure if I should let my BIL around my LO.
When I first met him he was addicted to opiates. He took them any day he could. After some time back at his parents he cleaned up got a job etc.
He then met a new girl who owned a bar. One thing led to another and he started doing drugs again.
After their falling out the same cyclebut worse this time .
He had a couple rough weeks and decided to try bath salts. Well he stuck with that for a bit until the new girlfriend caught him.
He now has to get drug tested weekly to be around her kids.
I want to trust that he'll stay clean but I don't want someone like that in my LO's life and he always seems to go back to it no matter how well he's doing.
If I did decide to keep him away from her, how do I go about family get togethers?
Should he be aloud around her after he's proved to be clean for awhile? And how long?
I've had trouble trying to figure this all out as far as the big picture.
When I first met him he was addicted to opiates. He took them any day he could. After some time back at his parents he cleaned up got a job etc.
He then met a new girl who owned a bar. One thing led to another and he started doing drugs again.
After their falling out the same cyclebut worse this time .
He had a couple rough weeks and decided to try bath salts. Well he stuck with that for a bit until the new girlfriend caught him.
He now has to get drug tested weekly to be around her kids.
I want to trust that he'll stay clean but I don't want someone like that in my LO's life and he always seems to go back to it no matter how well he's doing.
If I did decide to keep him away from her, how do I go about family get togethers?
Should he be aloud around her after he's proved to be clean for awhile? And how long?
I've had trouble trying to figure this all out as far as the big picture.