Soo as most of you know my DH's family is.. Insane to say the least.. Here's the problem. SIL thinks she had parental rights to DH's two kids..
Background: we've had full custody of both kids since ages 4 and 1 .. Birth mother ( or crack whore if you want) is not in the picture was in jail right after DS's birth and than out with other addicts (so never in his life) and in and out of all of DD's life .. Actually .. this bitch might even be dead?? No idea and I don't really care but she's gone lol.. Both kids call me mom (DS only knows me as mom and DD chose to call me mom and we are very very close)
ANYWAYS "dearest" SIL is a boundary stomping asshat who thinks she has some kind of say on the kids (mainly DD) ..it's disgusting. Most recent upset .. DS's birthday party .. I was trying to set everything up and was very surprised to see that SIL was uninterested in helping.. As in wouldn't. That's fine with me.. Just put up some flags.. Fast forward to the weekend.. SIL asks if the kids can come spend the night.. We had just moved and we thought it would be fun for the kids to get out of the house while we unpacked.. So off the kids go. ... Later that day.. On FB I see SIL threw a HUGE PARTY FOR HIS BIRTHDAY!!!! .. What was worse?? MIL showed up and BIL!! she had ordered a cake/piñata had all her friends come (she loves pretending the kids are hers in front of her friends and gettin praised) apparently she'd been planning it for awhile... Bitch. My family (bless them) was pissed with her for stomping boundaries and also not inviting them.. I still can't believe I wasn't invited to my sons birthday .
Mother's Day: she called FIL crying because he bought me a flower hanging basket and not her.. Butch please I AM a mother .. And if we're going to pull the biological card fine. But I'm currently 7 months pregnant with her niece.. Soooo
She has no interest in This baby .. She acts like she's less of a niece than dd.. I DON'T UNDERSTAND HER LOGIC.. She is mad that my baby shower is inconvenient .. She's never asked about LO once..
Oh and she texted me today saying that she wasn't going to help me with DD's birthday because she couldn't afford two parties... Ummm what? No. I laughed at her..
This bitch is crazy.
Background: we've had full custody of both kids since ages 4 and 1 .. Birth mother ( or crack whore if you want) is not in the picture was in jail right after DS's birth and than out with other addicts (so never in his life) and in and out of all of DD's life .. Actually .. this bitch might even be dead?? No idea and I don't really care but she's gone lol.. Both kids call me mom (DS only knows me as mom and DD chose to call me mom and we are very very close)
ANYWAYS "dearest" SIL is a boundary stomping asshat who thinks she has some kind of say on the kids (mainly DD) ..it's disgusting. Most recent upset .. DS's birthday party .. I was trying to set everything up and was very surprised to see that SIL was uninterested in helping.. As in wouldn't. That's fine with me.. Just put up some flags.. Fast forward to the weekend.. SIL asks if the kids can come spend the night.. We had just moved and we thought it would be fun for the kids to get out of the house while we unpacked.. So off the kids go. ... Later that day.. On FB I see SIL threw a HUGE PARTY FOR HIS BIRTHDAY!!!! .. What was worse?? MIL showed up and BIL!! she had ordered a cake/piñata had all her friends come (she loves pretending the kids are hers in front of her friends and gettin praised) apparently she'd been planning it for awhile... Bitch. My family (bless them) was pissed with her for stomping boundaries and also not inviting them.. I still can't believe I wasn't invited to my sons birthday .
Mother's Day: she called FIL crying because he bought me a flower hanging basket and not her.. Butch please I AM a mother .. And if we're going to pull the biological card fine. But I'm currently 7 months pregnant with her niece.. Soooo
She has no interest in This baby .. She acts like she's less of a niece than dd.. I DON'T UNDERSTAND HER LOGIC.. She is mad that my baby shower is inconvenient .. She's never asked about LO once..
Oh and she texted me today saying that she wasn't going to help me with DD's birthday because she couldn't afford two parties... Ummm what? No. I laughed at her..
This bitch is crazy.