Hello I've posted here several times. I have different issues with my mom dad and sister. My issue today is my father.
I cut of my father in December because he gave my husband drugs and tried to get him to sell them for my father. A large amount.
When i found out i immediately cut my fatter off
FF to current issue. I have my perfect baby. He came 5 weeks early but is healthy and happy. I allow my mother to come meet my son. I told her do not tell her Husband where i am. She starts talking about praying our relationship heal and as long as I'm mad at my father i won't be happy. This is all dumb to me and very illogical so i reiterate my
Position and move on.
I'm home for a week when this
BASTARD comes to my door. With a camera demanding to see his grand son.
I must admit i did not handle this well. First i opened the door. I know better from reading this site. Second i engaged. I allowed him to talk. Which was very disconcerting because he has never apologized or taken responsibility for his actions. He simply demanded to see the kids and attempted to bully me. He kept saying it was his right to check up on his daughter and grands.
In an effort to get him from my house (because my DH does not want him at my house and is willing to keep him away by any means necessary) i not only talked to him but i allowed him to see oldest kids and told him to leave. He kept saying I WAS GONE talk to him and if i didn't come settle this he'd be back.
He left and i was hysterical... My Husband and i were arguing because my Husband was like why'd you entertain that at all.
Now both of my parents are requesting a sit down to "work out our issues"
I come to you wise women to ask how do i proceed?
I don't want this drama in my home.but also don't want to anticipate uninvited guests at all times.
How do i get my family to stop coming to my house ...
I cut of my father in December because he gave my husband drugs and tried to get him to sell them for my father. A large amount.
When i found out i immediately cut my fatter off
FF to current issue. I have my perfect baby. He came 5 weeks early but is healthy and happy. I allow my mother to come meet my son. I told her do not tell her Husband where i am. She starts talking about praying our relationship heal and as long as I'm mad at my father i won't be happy. This is all dumb to me and very illogical so i reiterate my
Position and move on.
I'm home for a week when this
BASTARD comes to my door. With a camera demanding to see his grand son.
I must admit i did not handle this well. First i opened the door. I know better from reading this site. Second i engaged. I allowed him to talk. Which was very disconcerting because he has never apologized or taken responsibility for his actions. He simply demanded to see the kids and attempted to bully me. He kept saying it was his right to check up on his daughter and grands.
In an effort to get him from my house (because my DH does not want him at my house and is willing to keep him away by any means necessary) i not only talked to him but i allowed him to see oldest kids and told him to leave. He kept saying I WAS GONE talk to him and if i didn't come settle this he'd be back.
He left and i was hysterical... My Husband and i were arguing because my Husband was like why'd you entertain that at all.
Now both of my parents are requesting a sit down to "work out our issues"
I come to you wise women to ask how do i proceed?
I don't want this drama in my home.but also don't want to anticipate uninvited guests at all times.
How do i get my family to stop coming to my house ...