hi
I've been lurking, and just want to say had i found this site earlier on in my marriage, i might still be married. But i love to read and kill my unicorn for boundary stomping people. So ty ladies
View ArticleMIL showing up unannounced again, walked right in p7
MIL has gotten so much better with this but today she popped up unannounced looking for DH. No call or text first! She stayed over for about a half hour but it wasnt a good time for me my house was a...
View ArticleAt what point do I ditch a wedding?
Grrr. I grew up with Miss Manners. I know it's a major etiquette breach to back out of a wedding party. I know this will cause family squabbles if I back out. But, I am not thinking that's all bad....
View ArticlePlease tell me what to do *Cross posted in Oct 2014 group*
I'll try to make this short as possible. This has gone on for years- so here's the condensed version. I can provide more detail if needed My brother's wife(my SIL)Â is subletly pursuing my husband. I've...
View ArticleMy mom (trigger) UPDATE with pictures pg 3, 7
I originally joined this board because I though living beside my inlaws would be worse after the birth of my daughter. I lurked in order to help find ways to keep them from stopping at my house every...
View ArticleNeed unbiased advice, updpg 5, upd pg 8, upd pg 24, email pg 27, VM pg 34
Background, mil grew up in an alcoholic and abusive family. My mom did also so I know what it's like to have a parent battle through that stuff. My mom has worked through her issues, mil has not. Mil...
View Articlecame by uninvited!! now wants a sit down...long
Hello I've posted here several times. I have different issues with my mom dad and sister. My issue today is my father. I cut of my father in December because he gave my husband drugs and tried to get...
View ArticleMIl posting pictures of my dead dog on FB
So angry I could cry! My dog who I've had since she was a puppy recently passed away. If that's not bad enough I am pregnant and having health problems. But here's what I can't handle..I log into my FB...
View ArticleFIL, my accountant
I have spoken before about my FIL's rudeness. He is your typical egomaniac/narc. Not an evil narc, he just claims everyone's success's as his own. Anyway, he does our taxes every year. He owns a...
View ArticleMIL...calling our newborn by her own nickname.....not one we named him.
Husband says she doesnt mean anything by it. Â I am super frusrtated as she gave me a laundry list of names she didnt like with our first son. Â When she did this I asked to please not tell us names she...
View ArticleDealing with Step Dad cancer diagnosis and LO's birth
My step dad (raised me since I was 3) recently found out he had a cancerous mole on his head. They took a biopsy and it was active or whatever the term is. He is having surgery today to take out a...
View ArticleWho is around from 2009-2011 timeframe?
Any update stories of things getting better? Or SSDD (same stuff diff day?)
View ArticleFor those with BPD moms.
I found this article outlining four types of BPD mothers. http://m.psychologytoday.com/blog/stop-walking-eggshells/201109/the-world-the-borderline-mother-and-her-children My mother was/is a hermit...
View Article7 day visit - way too long
I'm on day 6 of a 7 day visit with my in-laws. I'm losing it. I am completely out of fake cheeriness and energy at this point. My MIL introduces people to my son and not to me. I'll be holding him and...
View ArticleRough night.. MIL rant..
DH recieved a text from his overbearing mother saying that she feels so bad for him because he has to work so hard at work then also come home and work hard. Dh works full time and goes to school. When...
View ArticleAaaand boom goes the dynamite (update on page 6)
triggers in BG: http://community.babycenter.com/post/a48618811/is_she_just_my_b.e.c_or_is_it_actually_a_problem_triggers_within?cpg=4&pd=-1 I started a new thread instead of updating that one...
View ArticleWant to get along with MIL but it's getting hard *long* impending fallout
I'll admit it. I snapped on her and it was wrong. It was on debil. I am currently 14 weeks pregnant and everything is going excellent so far. Well, my last few visits have been fantastic and I'm...
View Articlebil issues *trigger?*
I'm not really sure what to get out of this. I would like to firstly say that the situation has been resolved. I guess I just want to know if this has happened to others. Or maybe I'm just over...
View ArticleNoms and a Thank You to DWIL// VM's pg 8
Hi, all!! I have been lurking this board every day since I was pregnant with my 3 month old, and seldom posted. I created a new account to share my story for privacy reasons. This might get long, so...
View ArticleBaby's Last Name
I really need help and suggestion on this topic. Me and my husband agreed a long time ago that if we had a girl, she would take my last name and if we had a boy, he would take his last time. We take...
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