BG: The boundary stomp really wasn't huge... it was just the first one that came along after I decided to finally start enforcing my boundaries. She wanted to discuss a topic that I didn't want to talk about, I told her I didn't want to talk about it, three times she ignored my request and pushed the topic. I snapped at her and later she messaged me about it. With no apology right away, I put her on TO which lasted almost 2 months. I still think she should apologize and tonight this is what I get:
"Hi honey, I hope you are well and feeling well! I've thought about what to say and I'm just drawing a blank.... other than telling you that I'm sorry I violated your boundaries. I don't have the energy to go over, word for word who said what and when..... I know it was never my intention to violate any boundaries and I'd like to be able to promise you that I won't do it again, but I don't know if that would be honest. I really didn't understand that was what was happening. I didn't get that you were trying to draw some kind of boundary. So, I will say, and I really am sorry that i hurt you in any way. You know I love you."
Thoughts and/or PA translations? The lovey dovey shit at the end bothers me cause it feels like attempted rugsweep, doesn't it?