Background me and SO together for five years and have a two old son. In also pregnant with our second son.
My SO's mother and brother needed s place to stay for TWO weeks because they got evicted from their apartment. MIL stated her house would be ready by June 23. (NoticeTODAY'S date) and I was fine with that.
I am a very nurturing person so I did everything that I could you to make things comfortable for her as well as his brother. But since they've been here our had been a total NIGHTMARE. I'm 8 months Pregnant and they are extremely disrespectful.
His brother, has no job and just plays video games and smokes weed, pissed me off when I caught him peeing on my patio one night. When I brought the situation up MIL jumped down my throat and said "that's what boys do, and your son us going to pee in public when he's older" WTF?! He's 23! And he had the nerve to say he didn't want to wake up our dog who sleeps in the room next to the bathroom. Of course SO saw no issues and thought I was being dramatic.
His mother is a chain smoker and leaves cigarette ashes by the front door of our home. When I told her if she could make sure she cleans it up so my son doesn't play in it; she caught an attitude about it and slammed the front door on my face! I'm so emotional during this pregnancy and I don't want confrontation do I try to let it go.
On top of that they never left and said they're waiting on a different house to be ready by the end of this month. They haven't contributed for food and I cook for everyone EVERYDAY. If at active I have a problem with something going on with my son they make it seen like my opinion is unwarranted because in JUST his mother. Yet my SO and his mother should have the only say so. I've never felt so disrespected as a mother in my LIFE.
What had me wanting to leave is the fact they made a joke about me being raped when I was younger. This was something that is apart of my past that still hurts me to this day and I opened up to them about it. My SO let it slip out that his brother said I was fucking my step father to get back at my mom (we have no relationship at all partly because of her husband and she basically choose him over me) I've never cried so much in my life. Hire could they be so evil and ugly? And for my SO to just let it slip out and not even care?
I can't deal anymore.
My SO's mother and brother needed s place to stay for TWO weeks because they got evicted from their apartment. MIL stated her house would be ready by June 23. (NoticeTODAY'S date) and I was fine with that.
I am a very nurturing person so I did everything that I could you to make things comfortable for her as well as his brother. But since they've been here our had been a total NIGHTMARE. I'm 8 months Pregnant and they are extremely disrespectful.
His brother, has no job and just plays video games and smokes weed, pissed me off when I caught him peeing on my patio one night. When I brought the situation up MIL jumped down my throat and said "that's what boys do, and your son us going to pee in public when he's older" WTF?! He's 23! And he had the nerve to say he didn't want to wake up our dog who sleeps in the room next to the bathroom. Of course SO saw no issues and thought I was being dramatic.
His mother is a chain smoker and leaves cigarette ashes by the front door of our home. When I told her if she could make sure she cleans it up so my son doesn't play in it; she caught an attitude about it and slammed the front door on my face! I'm so emotional during this pregnancy and I don't want confrontation do I try to let it go.
On top of that they never left and said they're waiting on a different house to be ready by the end of this month. They haven't contributed for food and I cook for everyone EVERYDAY. If at active I have a problem with something going on with my son they make it seen like my opinion is unwarranted because in JUST his mother. Yet my SO and his mother should have the only say so. I've never felt so disrespected as a mother in my LIFE.
What had me wanting to leave is the fact they made a joke about me being raped when I was younger. This was something that is apart of my past that still hurts me to this day and I opened up to them about it. My SO let it slip out that his brother said I was fucking my step father to get back at my mom (we have no relationship at all partly because of her husband and she basically choose him over me) I've never cried so much in my life. Hire could they be so evil and ugly? And for my SO to just let it slip out and not even care?
I can't deal anymore.