MIL wants to help with potty training
We are trying to train DD for potty training and it's been difficult. DD will be 3 in November. She doesn't tell us when she goes and doesn't mind a wet diaper or soiled diaper. She will sit on the...
View ArticleFather with NPD possible TRIGGERS. UPDATE 2, 4, 7 rambling UD 8,9 Screenshots 10
I have thought long and hard about whether or not to post anything but this whole situation is still weighing heavily on me and I need you ladies to provide me with some perspective. Some background:...
View ArticleSharing pics of lo
Just want opinions ladies, would you be upset of your mil posted a picture of lo you sent to a different family member on Facebook without asking?
View ArticleMIL planned dd's birthday party, background throughout, ud 14
So I think I am handling this in a DWIL approved manner, but advice is always welcome. However, what I really need is support because I can feel my spine softening. This week is a crazy week for...
View ArticleShould I just call it quits?MIL/BIL Vent UPDATE/Trigger
Background me and SO together for five years and have a two old son. In also pregnant with our second son. My SO's mother and brother needed s place to stay for TWO weeks because they got evicted from...
View ArticleIs it finally over? Funny update pg 12
I wish I had found DWIL about 10 years ago because that's how long it's taken to get my in-law situation under control. Right now we're in an indefinite TO. DH has come an incredibly long way and I'm...
View ArticleNeed help, things came to a head last night. UD Pg: 3,4,5,7,13,15,17,18,20,24
I created a new ID for anonomity. I did not anticipate having to post again until my baby was born but some things happened last night that changed that drastically. My DW and I have spoken at length...
View ArticleGramburglar pt 3, update pg 35, OT vent pg 41
mini update Today I was in the back at work filing some papers when someone came in to get a loan. My trainer was out front getting her started. I walked out of the back and bam! there stands MIL. She...
View ArticleHow do I handle MiL wanting to be in on the birth? UPDATE on page 8
BG: MiL is equal parts generosity and BSC. She's devoted to her kids but basically anyone not blood related is one false step away from being the anti-Christ. I could go into detail if anyone wants...
View ArticleParenting advice books from FOO
I normally lurk but would love some advice... My DH and I have been married for three years, are in our 30s and are due with a little boy on October 1st. First grandchild for my parents. My parents...
View ArticleIs MIL insane? (llama noms)
Yes. Yes, she is. MIL: When is DS spending the night? Me: Never MIL: But, WHHYYYY? Me: Secondhand smoke and two people were shot and killed in FRONT OF YOUR HOUSE LAST WEEK! MIL: But- Me:NO MIL:When...
View ArticleBest of: Before I grew a spine
When dd was only a few months old, my now CO MIL would come over, a few times unannounced, and magically get me out of the house so she could watch dd all by herself. It was a tough time for me- I was...
View ArticleHow to ask MIL with out telling her my mom is a liar
This isn't a post about BSC, but it has to deal with IL and FOO so I figured this would be the best place to ask. BG: My MIL told us over Christmas that she wouldn't be able to make it for DS's 1st...
View ArticleAm I being petty?
I used to think that my ILs were very sweet people, that maybe I didn't understand them because there are some cultural and linguistic barriers (they are from Italy, but DH and BILL were born in the...
View ArticleFamily pleasing husband. Need experienced dwilers
I have lurked, gandered, laughed and fully enjoyed this site knowing I am not the only one with in law issues. I knew eventually I would write about my story. To sum things up and not write a whole...
View ArticleMIL is at it again, what is her deal?! NEW UPDATE PG 11
In this past week, MIL has: - Sent over a winter outfit for LO, which will be too small for him come winter time. DH has told her what size he's in (6/9/12 months, at 5 months old!) she sends a size...
View ArticleMIL Boyfriend
This is my first post in this board but I really hope someone can help. My MIL has been dating a guy for about 4 months. To make a long story short this guy as done some things towards my dd (she's 22...
View ArticleDH being a DuH..
I'm scheduled to be induced tonight. I thought i was going in tomorrow morning so the extra time i thought i had is thrown out of the window. The plan was to go to his dad's house to pick up some...
View ArticleMIL & DF decided without me...help! Update pg 13
So currently my fiancé and I live with his parents. This is our only living choice. We cannot afford an apartment or anything in our own and my side of the family cannot house us. My MIL and I used to...
View Articlecue lawn tantrums*FM page 2, 6,8, 15,18,20,26, 27,34,39
I've posted here before. Changed sn for anonymity. Bg summed up real quick: mil typical boundary stomper. Birth of our ds #3 and lurking here started to give me a back bone. Mil snatched yds(7weeks)...
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