This is my first post in this board but I really hope someone can help. My MIL has been dating a guy for about 4 months. To make a long story short this guy as done some things towards my dd (she's 22 months)that I haven't felt comfortable with. Such as calling her his baby and kissing her on her cheek/neck. This is all after a few times of meeting him. So I don't really know him that well. After the last incedent I have been distant from my MIL. She hasn't been allowed to see my dd that much mainly due to the fact that her bf lives with her. My dh has talked to her but she hasn't really taken in what he said. She's just so "in love". But to be honest my husband was too nice in my opinion when speaking to her about it. So it's been awkward. Well she's having a cookout next weekend and honestly just the thought of being around him gives me anxiety. My dh said he'll speak to him if he does something that I feel inappropriate but that is not enough for me. I don't want to give him the chance to do anything. I really love my dh's family who will be at the cookout but her bf has made it awkward and I don't want to be fake as if I do like him because I don't. To add for more backstory he's a creep. He has rumors around town of being a womanizer and abusive. He also doesn't work a full time job which leaves my MIL to pick up a lot of his slack. Overall he doesn't seem like he's good enough for her in my eyes. So after being what I felt was inappropriate with my dd I've just kept my distance to avoid conflict. I've thought about not going but when I mentioned to my dh he got upset. I'm not sure what I should do. HELP!?
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